reunion dinner...
had the traditional reunion dinner last nite at my aunt's place.. every year the paternal side will have a reunion dinner one week b4 the actual day.. meeting up with relatives... cuzzies.. heh just a nice warm cosy steamboat dinner.. this year we had something extra.. mini bbq on the hot plate.. baconn... yummy.. hee.. :) met my 2 cutie pies again.. my nephews ethan n ian.. so so so so cute.. ian as usual was fascinated with my hp.. and how he could see his face in my fone.. oh man.. he's so adorable lar.. with those precious moments eyes and big head.. haha andthe best part.. he calls me jiejie.. haha so im not aunty.. yet :P
over dinner were the usual few questions bout whether got bf.. (that applies to me).. when getting married.. (that applies to the rest minus my bro n another cuzzie).. how's work etc etc etc..
looking back.. i never was close to my paternal side.. most of my cuzzies are like around my brother's age.. so they're all working now and also settling down.. me on the other hand is right smack in the middle.. coz i have 2 more cousins younger den me who are like in sec sch now.. so i tend to be closer to my maternal side where all my cuzzies are around my age.. :) but i find that as i grow older.. the age gap becomes less significant and it is easier to talk to the older cuzzies about things.. more to talk about in fact..
but as i see my two cute lil nephews running around the house wrecking havoc.. i thought to myself.. die lar.. what if next time my kids like that.. how to handle?? i asked my mummy if korkor was like that when he was young.. she said he was worse.. haha so i made up my mind.. if i were to give birth to a boy (that's like 10 yrs down the road.. haha) i'll make my mummy look after him.. den she can run up n down high n low with him.. but.. if all else fails.. there's always raffia string and masking tape... hahaha
i noe the 2 boys miss their father.. ian saw korkor's pic in my hp and when i asked him who's that.. he replied me 'dada'... haha so cute rite.. sigh as i looked at how hard my cousin has to work to bring up these 2 boys.. my heart broke.. that bastard has not returned home for the longest time ever.. happily gallivanting outside with the bitch.. why is life like that? why must guys again be jerks even after they're married.. dont they ever settle down and learn how to treat a lady right?? or are us girls doomed for the rest of our lives to live with bastards.. as i said b4.. guys.. cant live with.. cant live without..
just a side note.. altho most of us are too young for that commitment now.. goes out esp to the guys and some girls too.. if you ever plan on getting married.. the day u sign those marriage certs.. is the day you must no matter wad love ur spouse and only your spouse.. ur heart must remain faithful and loyal.. even though if love fades over time.. but there are always other things to find to keep the marriage going.. dont ever walk out on ur spouse.. and no matter how bad the situation is.. im sure both of you can work things out together.. there is always a solution to the problem.. it's just whether you wanna put in the effort or not..
marriage is a life sentence.. as bad as that may sound but it's true.. u made the decision to spend the rest of ur life with that certain someone.. stick by it.. this is no game..
sigh i noe im v preachy but really.. dun get married if you cant commit.. or if you have problems keeping faithful.. and to all those men and women who have happily gone off with someone new and leaving his/her spouse behind.. fuck you.. i totally detest such people.. and im sure you wont make it to heaven.. what goes around comes around.. so there.
